Invitation to Work With Me
Marriage is an invitation to grow. Even if you had the best childhood and never had any trauma, you bring unhealed wounds to your relationship. These get activated when you and your partner are out of sync. Out of sync can look like arguing, feeling disconnected, or in Roommate Syndrome.
Invitation to Work With Me
Marriage is an invitation to grow. Even if you had the best childhood and never had any trauma, you bring unhealed wounds to your relationship. These get activated when you and your partner are out of sync. Out of sync can look like arguing, feeling disconnected, or in Roommate Syndrome.
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Healing your spouse may be the most impactful and powerful thing you can do with your life. Imagine being healed through your partner's loving actions. And growing healthier together in an interdependent closeness.
Working together, I will teach you a protocol that is straightforward and simple like all of my tools. It uses intentional and consistent actions, and a plan that is entirely specific to you.
In 60-minute three sessions, I teach you to:
Identify your family of origin wounds.
Create a robust list of healing actions.
Negotiate how to implement the healing actions.
Create a feedback loop so you continue to grow.
Healing your spouse may be the most impactful and powerful thing you can do with your life. Imagine being healed through your partner's loving actions. And growing healthier together in an interdependent closeness.
Working together, I will teach you a protocol that is straightforward and simple like all of my tools. It uses intentional and consistent actions, and a plan that is entirely specific to you.
In 60-minute three sessions, I teach you to:
Identify your family of origin wounds.
Create a robust list of healing actions.
Negotiate how to implement the healing actions.
Create a feedback loop so you continue to grow.
We'll meet every other week for three sessions spanning six weeks. At the end of each session, you'll have a specific plan to enact for the following two weeks. You'll receive email support and encouragement between sessions.
What you won't do is tell me the story of your relationship or your childhood. It's not that those things aren't important. Instead, we will focus on a plan that heals the core issues. I'll help you identify those core wounds without hearing all of the details.
The best couple for this work is one who genuinely wants to grow together, is deeply committed to the relationship, and is not in crisis. In fact, if you were in crisis in the past, you are probably an ideal couple who will get the most out of the program--you've already been through the fire and you both know what you almost lost.
We'll meet every other week for three sessions spanning six weeks. At the end of each session, you'll have a specific plan to enact for the following two weeks. You'll receive email support and encouragement between sessions.
What you won't do is tell me the story of your relationship or your childhood. It's not that those things aren't important. Instead, we will focus on a plan that heals the core issues. I'll help you identify those core wounds without hearing all of the details.
The best couple for this work is one who genuinely wants to grow together, is deeply committed to the relationship, and is not in crisis. In fact, if you were in crisis in the past, you are probably an ideal couple who will get the most out of the program--you've already been through the fire and you both know what you almost lost.
The requirements
You both have to agree to heal one another.
A reluctant partner will have a hard time sticking with the agreements.
You long for a closer than average relationship.
You need to be committed to doing what you say you will do.
You want to create a healthy, interdependent unbreakable bond.
This is not a program for couples in active crisis. If an affair has just been discovered, one partner is threatening to move out, or any of the other relationship threatening crises that couples experience, do couples therapy first.
You will commit the time to doing the work.
The requirements
You both have to agree to heal one another.
A reluctant partner will have a hard time sticking with the agreements.
You long for a closer than average relationship.
You need to be committed to doing what you say you will do.
You want to create a healthy, interdependent unbreakable bond.
This is not a program for couples in active crisis. If an affair has just been discovered, one partner is threatening to move out, or any of the other relationship threatening crises that couples experience, do couples therapy first.
You will commit the time to doing the work.
The rewards
You will have the tools to make a deep difference in one another’s lives.
You can work on your partner's injuries (whether caused by you or someone else) a little bit every day.
Over time, those small actions everyday add up to a huge impact.
You will create an alliance that truly fits who you each are and a marriage that is custom designed for you.
Even as you grow and change, you’ll know exactly how to adjust your relationship.
When you do this for each other, it feels fair.
You each benefit in the unique way you need, but together.
You can claim all of the progress. Your relationship will grow healthier and bond as you do the work.
A satisfying, supportive marriage is a springboard to meeting all of your other life goals.
It provides the safety and support from which you can take risks to accomplish big goals.
The rewards
You will have the tools to make a deep difference in one another’s lives.
You can work on your partner's injuries (whether caused by you or someone else) a little bit every day.
Over time, those small actions everyday add up to a huge impact.
You will create an alliance that truly fits who you each are and a marriage that is custom designed for you.
Even as you grow and change, you’ll know exactly how to adjust your relationship.
When you do this for each other, it feels fair.
You each benefit in the unique way you need, but together.
You can claim all of the progress. Your relationship will grow healthier and bond as you do the work.
A satisfying, supportive marriage is a springboard to meeting all of your other life goals.
It provides the safety and support from which you can take risks to accomplish big goals.
The Cost
$997 for a 3-session (60 minute sessions) package plus support. (If you want ongoing support, additional sessions are $300/hour.)
(Compared to $3000 for a weekend marriage intensive or $3050 for 15 sessions of couples therapy).
The Cost
$997 for a 3-session (60 minute sessions) package plus support. (If you want ongoing support, additional sessions are $300/hour.)
(Compared to $3000 for a weekend marriage intensive or $3050 for 15 sessions of couples therapy).
Meet Cheri
Cheri is a Couples Psychotherapist and Couples Relationship Coach.
She helps long-term couples break out of the rut of Roommate Syndrome so they can connect deeply and keep their love alive for a lifetime.
She can help you release built up resentment and heal relationship injuries so you can claim the relationship you deeply desire.
Meet Cheri
Cheri is a Couples Psychotherapist and Couples Relationship Coach.
She helps long-term couples break out of the rut of Roommate Syndrome so they can connect deeply and keep their love alive for a lifetime.
She can help you release built up resentment and heal relationship injuries so you can claim the relationship you deeply desire.
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